If you’re a regular, you’ll notice that we take turns to blog here. It’s my job to make sure this happens but at times this requires some heavy ‘nudging’ of my colleagues!
In short, I sometimes find it challenging to have the level of influence required to get people to do the things I ask of them.
My colleague Francesca and I joke about introducing the ‘marketing stick’ which we would use to poke/hit people who don’t respond to our gentle ‘nudging’!
To help make my life a little easier I wanted to learn what it is that makes people great influencers and what I can do to become one.
I asked my business coach, Ed Percival, to help me and (in Ed’s own ‘unique’ style) we discussed all things influencing from hypnosis to coercion (unfortunately he wouldn’t teach me that!).
This is my understanding of Cialdini’s ‘Weapons of ethical influence’ and how I think these can be applied to being a successful influencer in my role
Authority
I know from my study of psychology that people tend to obey authority figures. Milgram showed that wearing a white coat and posing as a scientist is enough to influence people to administer deadly electric shocks to innocent people.
To become a better influencer I need to be an authority in my field, a specialist who people look to as an expert. I need to continually expand and flaunt my knowledge to establish my expertise.
Treating others as an authority is also an effective way of influencing behaviour. If we compare these requests:
The second is more compelling as it depicts the subject as a source of authority.
Social Proof
Social proof refers to the ‘everybody’s doing it’ principal. People tend to do things that other people are doing. We see this in advertising A LOT! Take a look at this Nivea advert.
Social proof is relatively easy to apply to my job, I simply need to imply or better still, evidence that the herd is moving in the same direction! It’s the “why do I have to…?” “because everyone else has already…” argument.
1) Scarcity
People tend to want more of what is less available. We see perceived scarcity ALL the time.
Creating perceived scarcity lends itself to some situations better than others but is a worthwhile influencing tool to consider.
1) Commitment &
Consistency
Most people prefer to honour their word. If people commit to something they are more likely to actually do it.
Great influencers get strong commitment at the earliest possible stage to ensure action is taken.
2) Reciprocity
Marketeers use this all the time by giving away ‘free’ samples to encourage people to later buy a product.
When people feel indebted to you they are more likely to agree to something that you want. This can be something as simple as paying someone a compliment to going out your way to helping a colleague on a project.
Liking
This one’s pretty self-explanatory: it’s easier to influence someone who likes you. Liking can be affected by all kinds of things including physical attractiveness, shared interests or personality types.
Some influencers may use techniques such as flattery in an attempt to get people to like them, but liking is actually the weakest influencing factor.
So next time you want someone to do something for you, arm yourself with these six weapons and see how influential you can be :-)
Cheers,
Rosie